Do Words Match Actions?
- Lisa Angelini
- Feb 1
- 1 min read
When someone’s words don’t match their actions, when commitment is inconsistent, when communication feels like an uphill battle; that’s not healthy love, it’s half-way love and that’s a cycle. A cycle of waiting, hoping, and over-explaining your needs to someone who was never willing to meet you where you stand.
Healthy love doesn’t avoid accountability. It doesn’t disappear when things get hard or ask you to carry the emotional load alone. It meets you in the middle. It shows up, again and again, with presence, effort, and integrity. Halfway love, on the other hand, asks you to shrink, to settle, to tolerate what you know in your gut isn’t right.
Be brave and walk alone in wholeness rather than together in uncertainty. Wait for the kind of love that is steady, rooted, and real than hold onto something that only offers flashes of what you deserve.
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Lisa Angelini, MAPC, LPC, ACCHT
Holistic Psychotherapist and Coach
602-330-6378
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